

What she did was technically legal, but such entrapment situations are things that everyone needs to be aware of and stay out of. End result, she would typically get a six figure settlement and move on to another "patsy". After she had been "accepted" and such, she then made a complaint of "sexual harrassment" on these same guys she joked around with. She was a car sales person and reasonably good looking and always tried to be "one of the boys" with the other sales people on the floor-to the extent there would eventually be some inappropriate or off color jokes and such every so often. Our Loss Control Consultant mentioned that one lady made a very good living from such complaints and lawsuits.

In reality, I suspect that anyone that would file sexual harrassment complaints due to the two things that have been mentioned would be so sexually frustrated (or opportunistic!) that they need to re-evaluate their own lives. What I did was purely a fluke and those who I'd worked with for decades at my employment knew that, so it was fun for them to catch me doing something "imperfect". Then it becomes difficult to explain on a resume when you're looking for work after being terminated.ĬdadbrI do not advise anyone to intentionally do that little deal-period! I mentioned it only as a reference that there are probably more "watchers" than you might suspect. One of your coworkers could be so offended as to file a sexual harassment lawsuit or complaint with the EEOC. Just remember to act like it's something you overlooked when you are made aware of it.Ĭdadbrthis is not good advice. I highly suspect it will be a female that will notice it first and "act" offended or something.

If you want to really see how many there might be, you might leave the rest room unzipped and see how long it takes someone to advise you or your error. Proceed at your own risk and make sure everything's tucked away properly! As I suspected later, the first adviser of my indiscretion was one of our lady employees. Of course, they could not have seen anything due to my shirt tale and that everything was below zipper level on my Dockers. It was amusing when my manager came up and said something in front of everybody (about "the barn door being left open"), but we all had a good laugh. The reason I know that is that one day I did that by mistake. Just remember to act like it's something you overlooked when you are made aware of it. How do the rest of you deal with crotch watchers?If you want to really see how many there might be, you might leave the rest room unzipped and see how long it takes someone to advise you or your error. I have become oblivious to the stares for the most part, but sometimes it does bother me. After years of freeballing at work, I sometimes get a little nervous when co-workers stare at my crotch.
